The devil with an attitude

最近家里似乎掀起了风水和算命的热朝， 几乎每个人都突然间对风水和算命有一些研究，个个相似个“专家“似的热心的提供不少他们所懂的知识。

小朋友帮我算了算我的命， 便赞了我是个独力人士；钱财嘛 还算不薄，生活也过得去。。。可是嘛就是没有一颗慈悲的心的人 “你没有 compassion lor!” 听了小专家的分析，我哈哈大笑。。。“好真哦！我确实是个没有同情心的人啊！对人从不厚善，更不乐善好施啦！ 所以分析的一点也不赖。

几天后，姑姑给我打了通电话，兴奋的告诉我，她帮我分析了名字，现名对我不厉，便鼓励我去改名。

这么一说，我的心也动摇了。虽然对现名其实很满意，因为“秋禾“这名字罕有，跟一名字比起还挺特别的, 可是去听听命相专家的分析也无妨。就在24日当天去了游龙子师傅哪儿！师傅说问题就出在“禾“字，尾名克我，所以要改善命运，就一定要改！

最终,师傅建议我改名为: 王秋璇

新名的文字之画数数法，代表了: 计谋出众财力豪，最忌欲望如天高，猜疑忌妒不该有，如龙乘运好运来！ 我人生的华福寄托抡良好名字，就从今天开始。。。

后记: 好“姑娘“哦！ 还真有点不习惯

内容道: “为了幸运抽奖，一向习惯迟到早退得出席者没人提前离开，大家会乖乖呆到最后，人人装着一脸不在乎的表情“

哈哈，他说的对: “每个人的心跳都不受控制地快速增跳，都希望其他人可以有事先走，留下的人就可以有更多的机会。“

中奖者，个个都笑: 笑哈哈，笑眯眯，笑嘻嘻，暗笑，发笑，欢笑，哗笑，狂笑。。。                                   无奖者，个个也笑: 惨笑，苦笑，冷笑。。。

他形容在坐席上的无奖者: “有的在窃窃私语，表面上若无其事，只表露出一点点羡慕的表情，大方祝福幸运儿；有的面无表情，有的强颜欢笑，有的捶心肝问道: why him?/ why her?/ why not me?” 。。。。。。 真的是，说出了我心理感受，百感交集。

在这时候无奖者都同病相怜吧， 望而兴叹: “早知道不留！“

不到一会，我便和友人迅速的不甘不愿离开，心中哀怨。

可笑的是偶像还提到: “人群渐散后，依然不见任何人热诚衷心地祝福得奖者！“ 可见，不管出席那一场宴会，人们的心态和态度都是一致的。。。一切尽在不言中！

我们都知道时间是宝贵的，但许多时候，你我都忙得忽略了生命中一些重要的推动力。

手表是我每天生活饰物不可缺少的，如有一天忘记戴，就会全身不自在！

最近，朝流最 IN 的就大大表面，钻石闪闪，连“瞎子“在都远远都能主意倒的特大腕表。。。比如Jacob & Co, Frank Muller, Omega,Rolex 等等。

我呢渴望而不可及的婉表很多，就只能以羡慕的眼光，心理恨死那个拥用者，巴不得戴的人是我！

   不巧的是我从杂志，读到了Tag Heuer 即将在上市为女性而 re-design 的 Monaco 腕表。这一看就一见钟情。。。简直符合了我要求: 大大的，又Sporty, 又Stylish, 当然少不了那闪闪发光的钻石，而价钱又合理！2006年12月2日，手表一上市就第一时间购买。

算是慰劳自己在2006年整年的忙碌与辛劳。 可是此表在我购买的四个月内，平平出了不少小毛病，在我忍无可忍之下示出我的恶霸，要求商家换取一只崭新的。

陪我长年累月一起走过每一天的手表都是我珍惜的有情岁月:

(1) 知足: Rolex Oyster, 从爸爸那占为己有！别小看它哦，它跟了我爸经历不少，都快30 年了。人人都渴望拥有的一个手表品牌，拥有了就可以知足，放弃追求。

(2) 简单: Gucci (购买于2001年4月18日), 爱上它简单的美，G代表了我的姓名。当回到原点也可以变成一种时尚。

(3) 放慢节奏: Mickey Mouse …好象Gerald Genta 吧! (购买于2006年4月19日), 回到儿时的天真！遇到问题与烦恼，希望能会到儿时，慢慢地享受长大过程。

(4) 休息: Adidas (购买于2005), 感觉轻松， 活力……是我运动的好帮手。

在每个人生的不同阶段，随着年龄，教育，生活水平和周围朋友影响腾。。。品味和生活态度也渐渐改变。学生时代追求得是Swatch 或 Guess, 长大后有了稍微得金质基础，就不再把那区区$100左右的所谓紧急普通品牌 视如草芥！

女人啊！是永远不满足现状!

女人啊！ 时时可可都有很多心机: 野心，虚荣心，占有心，贪心…

而我下个目标……哈哈！

Somebody said if your mother is good, your child will “turn out good”.

To be a mother, you do not need any education as mother can always find child-rearing questions and solutions by their mother instinct, some how, some way!

Perhaps the hardest part of being a mother is not labour and delivery but rearing the children ensuring they will be good. Good in who they are, good in their health, good in their education, good in their future…

Being a mother is never boring and never relaxed. She is part of the production and cast in the everyday life of the family. She eases your pain as if she is a doctor; cooks as if she is a chef and teaches you as if she is a guru, gives you support to achieve your goals and she is always there whenever you needed her.

You cannot deny mother is a champion who cans multi-tasks efficiently without compromising on her quality and timeline. These virtues cannot be taught nor learnt, for you cannot never sum the sacrifices put in for your goodwill.

And lastly, I have “turned out good”, because my mother is good!

A girl with long hair tends to attract attention; A girl with long straight & silky hair will be the centre of attention.

Eyeballs will focus intensely, lingering with anticipation for a second glance and disappointment follows later. Hair plays an important composition of our physical appearance and is telltale signs of our personal characteristics. My rough and natural wavy curls are evidence of stubbornness and strong-willed. With the sophisticated hair innovation, I have managed to hide the unsightly curls in control with rebonding – disposition myself from the ugly truth.

The current trend is to be spotted with the all-time favourite and trendy BOB look. Attitude is added by cutting the fringe in doll style, where it will rest in a straight line above the eyebrows. I have always envy girls who look gorgeous in this simple yet chic with this understated hairstyle as it will not work on me with the same effect.

Having painstakingly grown my hair from the short corp cut and rebonded it 3 months ago, it will take me tons of persuasion to convince myself to cut it off for a new change. Hence, to add vibes to 24×7 usual style, I have always make a request to cut my fringe to a doll-style each time I trim my hair. Interestingly, all requests was turned down by several different stylist on the notion: “it does not suit your low forehead and facial shape.”

Despite having affirmation from different experts, I dare myself to raise this request during my haircut session in Indonesia . Knowing that the hair will be cut accordingly to my request without professional input, I dare myself to try the cut which all stylists refused. The verdict, you will end your desire after undergone for the real.

The moral of the story is to trust the professional advice given by subject matter experts. Now I will have a long time to re-grow my fringe and got to face ridicule on my “foolish” look. And only my mom lied I looked good and younger in this haircut.

Well, at least I have tried what I have always envied and let the truth speaks for itself!